A Faber,
Thanks much again for getting back to me. I live in Maine, which is in some ways a bit like Texas (it is as big as the other 5 New England states put together), but has a relatively small population (1.3 million), so people and places tend to be spread out a lot. I travel about 180 miles roundtrip to my little Gaelic group, and I hate the drive (winter driving at night in Maine can be exciting!), but when I get there, I get motivated by the group session. I always said that if I agree to drive so far for these classes, I had better get something out of them, and I think this has helped motivate me to learn more.
My interest is Ulster Irish is twofold. My background is from Ulster, so it is a natural sound to me. Also, I am interested in learning enough Scottish Gaelic (Gaidhlig) to be able to speak a little bit when/if I go up to Nova Scotia (especially Cape Breton)or over to Scotland (the Highlands and Islands), so I am told Ulster Irish will be the most helpful in that regard.
It is a tough enough slog to learn this language without getting abuse from others. I'm sorry this has happened to you. I take most of the input I get as well-meaning and try to learn from it. Some folks are probably better at giving advice than others.
It is very hard to get learners like us to actually speak the language, and in our classes we have had a tough time getting it to happen. However, this year we have started doing little presentations (about 5 brief sentences) about ourselves at each class, and this has broken the ice very well. Not everyone seems to have the same ability to absorb the sounds and repeat them, but I am optimistic that all of us who try it will do better. We started out using Ulster Irish materials (the Giota Beag lessons), but are now also using Buntus Cainte and Progress in Irish, so we have exposure to the several dialects. I find the audio of the Buntus Cainte difficult to hear accurately, and I have been happy to have discovered that Raidio Failte (raidiofailte.com) has a learners class (called Cupla Focal) that presents Buntus Cainte in Ulster Irish. I find it easier to understand, and they present each class twice, slowly, so more of it sinks in. Unfortunately, the Ulster Irish version is not available commercially, but Raidio Failte says they will be making podcasts of each lesson available in the near future.
It sounds like you have already progressed beyond the Buntus-Giota Beag Eile level, so I congratulate you. I will give some more thought to purchasing the Tus Maith materials, but I must admit that I haven't absorbed much of the material in the various courses and books I already have, so may hold off adding any more for a while. I can do the level of the "coffee, tea, sugar, biscuit" etc. that you mention, but the verbs are much more scary. I have the Glance Card (and the instructions), but so far haven't gotten a great deal of confidence from it. I am retired, so the thought of an immersion, perhaps in Donegal, is appealing. Probably not this year, but perhaps next year.
If I can be of help to you in any way, please let me know.
Caubeen